Death to the Big Lights

Have you ever been to a nice restaurant and asked yourself: “Why is the lighting so sexy? Also, why do I feel myself? Also, can I get an espresso martini, stat?”

It’s because the “big lights” don’t exist.

What are the big lights? They are usually the ones on switches.

When it comes to your home, we are begging you to turn off the big lights — let’s make your home a little more vibey.

I am here as your guide, to shed some light on the importance of ambient lighting (pun intended).

You see, mood lighting isn't just about aesthetics — it's an emotional enabler. Lighting works similarly to smell, often triggering a sense of nostalgia and familiarity. Understanding its effects allows us to design spaces that nurture the moods and behaviors we desire.

Picture this: dimly lit tables, slow-paced dining, and contented guests. That's precisely the magic of dim lighting. It creates an intimate ambiance perfect for intentional gatherings. It's not just about what's on the plate; it's about the atmosphere that surrounds it.

Light isn't just about what we see — it's also about how we feel. It has biological and psychological effects that impact our health and well-being. It can trigger memories, draw attention to familiar objects, and transform a mundane space into one of inspiration.

We have learned through years of intentional hosting that lighting is disarming. It acts as a gentle invitation, beckoning your guests to settle in and savor the moment.

It’s about time we give lighting the respect it deserves for helping create lasting impressions that linger years after your dinner guests depart.

So, dear hosts, as you prepare to entertain, remember the transformative power of lighting. Pray, do turn off the big lights, and let the ambiance illuminate the most important moments.

Your curator of spaces,
Jessica Avilés